Relationship

She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian, Should I Forfeit The Relationship?

There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remember, then, MTN with their free night calls, we would talk from 12 am to 5:00 am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well-known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing.

You know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detests a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keeps coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn’t reach ourselves, then I decided to relocate to another location in Lagos

But just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that’s how we started and doing fine, she’s now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while I am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she tries to convince her dad, but all effort was proved abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friended as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Please fellow Naijaloadite, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can’t let go of anyone, and yet we don’t want our parent to turn back to us,

She keeps crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

Should We Quit The Relationship Or What Should We Do Now?

23 Comments

  1. Why would you give up on love and quit?Your parents shouldn’t decide your religion most especially the lady.Pray for God’s intervention, marry her if you really love her.You both have your lives to live.cheers

  2. Never quit the relationship if love is still there. You really have a work to do. You can try and speak any of your elders in the family and let them intervein in the matter and with prayers, God will definitely take control.

  3. This is serious problem.
    U both love each other fine.but I want u to know that if ur parents did not bless ur marriage .the love will finally break and then it will be too late for the lady to remarried after a kid.
    I will advise u pray to God and plead to ur parents.but if they did not accept.u should break up.cos obedience is better than sacrifice.

  4. Hmm this is serious…if one of you would not be converting..then u should quit..cus if u don’t, conflict of interest wld come up later…

  5. Muslim to marry Christian is not the real problem understanding is the matter, the real problem is your parents, no parent will not want his or her children not to follow their ways, my own advice is that if both of your parents did not agree to marry each other, I will tell you to quit, parent means alot, if you force to marry and later anything happened to go to anyone of your parents will difficult and last husband or wife can divorce you, but ur parents can not do that.

  6. That big mistake for our people now are days religion has nothing to do with love, you don’t need to brake up with your lover because of religion if truly love him

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