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PLEASE ADVISE!! Few Weeks To Our Wedding, My Man Who Earns 240k Wants Me To Quit My 355k Per Month Job – What Should I Do?
Hi Guys!!
A Nigerian lady has shared a serious conversation between her and fiance a few weeks to their wedding.
The matter is so serious because she earns more and her husband-to-be wants her to quit the job on the ground that their kids will need serious motherly care.
Go through the WhatsApp conversation carefully and offer your advice to the woman.
READ CONVERSATION BELOW:- 
Guys, over to you 
What Are Your Thoughts On This Matter?
Hmmm serious talk
Yeah Very serious
Yes o
Pls dont ever thing of quetin dat job
Pls never leave the job rather talk it out
He is still having malaria, I think he should treat his malaria first
Asin ehnn…he must really be having that malaria u are talking about
I thought is even more than malaria his having
YES NAA
I swear
Let the two of them settle their self oo
IS REAL
Seriously, a case that requires an expert
Na real expert
YES
It is
The talk strong
Go and pray about it you need God intervention
Let both of together and reason vary well to drop of water make a mighty ocean
As in how
Not clear enough
Lol yes oo
Obey ur husband
Lol
Lol
The man is having malaria fever,
😆😆😂
I think the man ve taken weed
OK agreed
YES
The matter need intervention
But if its me am not stopping my job for no reason instead the husband should consider bringing Nanny
Yes getting job now is not easy
At all o
I swear down
And if he refuses? Considering the pregnancy
Well I think find out first why he have change is mind
Yes you have to obey your husband
Convinced him in order to retain the job
If she can do so
Exactly
At least he should try to understand.. This is her life, her career
lol
That true shall
Lol
OK, I concur to this
The husband should reconsider
Thank you o
The man shld even be glad he has a wife that earns that figure, except he is jealous
YES
She should not leave her job.
Simple.
She should better not try it at all
At All
YES
YEAP
Even I did not support that
Supported
Abi the husband mad Ni…so she went to school,worked hard and all just to become a housewife…that aside…shey them no court Ni..I mean all this should have been discussed during courtship…ND if them see say them no agree them go do leave themselves since…the girl shld better not even think of quitting.cuz if she does..he go call her liability last last
Quitting her job is truly a wrong idea
Yes o
YES, TO THE MAN CAN EVEN BENEFIT FROM THAT WOMAN SALARY
Do not leave ur job. U may regret itster
This is really serious matter
Even in addition self how come she’s 4month pregnant & discussing serious matters like this online it’s obvious they are not living together
Calm down na no vex
Lol…you dey mind am.him blood dey hot
The lady will definitely suffer I if she should quit. She better have a rethink and the so called husband or husbandry should come down and reason with his wife to be.
Help me tell this guy that there is no job outside o.
Hmmmmm..how would she suffer??..
Because whenever Mr Husband begins to play on her intelligence, the lady will feel ashamed.
I still don’t get you…feel ashamed she did not give up her job or what
Be wise o
A word is enough for the wise.. Opportunity come but ones
Abi o
ABI OO
THE WOMAN SHOULD BE WISE
Loud it o
If I hear she leaves the job
Find people to talk to him and also pray for God intervention
True
YEAP
I concur
He’s not ready to get married
He just want to cripple her carer
Asin ehnn
FINALLY
I swear
The woman is at detriment here not the man, she shld be the one to be ready
Don’t leave that job, u will later suffer for it
Exactly
Abi o
He is an enemy of progress divorce him and look for a real man like me.
I support the motion
I SUPPORTED YOU
YES
Guys are so unpredictable 😔didn’t he know while courting before preparing for d marriage???it is well tho
Point of correction… “Some guys” because I believe some are predictable
Lol
Thanks you o
Judging from their conversation it appears they were overridden by blind love that they never discussed it
Abi o. He even said nevermind
I will advice you to hold down a while, let him understand that you will do that after the marriage
Really
During or after pregnancy in marriage?
Follow your heart dear
And it shall set her free
Lol
Yes now people can misled her ….so let her just follow her heart ooo
Ok o